I’ve often wondered this and about many things. But specifically I am referring to adults. That’s my main concern. At what age do you have to get your sh… uh, act together and stop acting like a dunce?
I don’t expect 18 year olds to act like fully grown adults. In most ways, they are not adults. While they have reached an age of maturity that is accepted by our government, most 18 year olds are not independent and rely quite heavily on their parents.
College students. Well, there are a lot of college students that make it on their own. They use loans, scholarships, grants, jobs, etc to pay for their books, housing, tuition, food, and whatever else. There are also a lot of college students that still expect their parents to do everything for them. Laundry, money, homework, what have you. I understand living at home. If you can manage it and your parents approve, why not save some money for later? But living at home just so you have someone to cook you dinner, do your laundry, make your bed, and save you money so you can go out partying every weekend, swear you won’t drink again, and then get wasted less than 24 hours later, is ridiculous.
I don’t think that every kid should go out and flip burgers or bag groceries as soon as s/he is able, but there does come a time when it’s appropriate to get a job and learn the glories of earning and spending money. That’s an important talk that parents should have with their children as well, long before the wonders of the birds and bees, mind you. I should have gotten a part time job before I did, at least a couple of years. Not only is it a good learning experience, but I’m quite social, and it gives you another outlet. Unless of course, you work somewhere where you hate everyone else or where they don’t speak English. I also wish my parents had taught me a thing or two about money, but honestly, I think when I was young, they didn’t really know that much about it either.
So, to bring me back to my point, when do we have to grow up? By what age do you think that it’s no longer acceptable to be living with mom & dad? Personally, I think 25 is the absolute latest. I mean, doesn’t it hurt your odds of getting laid? “We’ve got to be quiet, because my dad is a light sleeper…” is not exactly a turn-on.
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